{"id":1094,"date":"2026-06-12T15:11:21","date_gmt":"2026-06-12T19:11:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/?p=1094"},"modified":"2026-06-12T15:11:21","modified_gmt":"2026-06-12T19:11:21","slug":"ive-fallen-and-cant-get-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/?p=1094","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I&#8217;ve fallen and can&#8217;t get up!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/help-on.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"366\" height=\"188\" src=\"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/help-on.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1096\" srcset=\"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/help-on.png 366w, https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/help-on-300x154.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 366px) 100vw, 366px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I fell four times this week. Two were out of bed, and two when I lost my balance  trying to feed the cat. One I went to the hospital for and they x-rayed my entire right side. No broken or fractured bones. The out-of-bed was because my mattress is too big for my bed. I have found that I can climb into my &#8220;big comfy chair&#8221; and once I&#8217;m there, I can haul myself into the chair and get up that way. My son is there to help by giving me a little push or using the gait belt I bought to lift me up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All of a sudden, my legs now feel like lead, especially the right side. I can&#8217;t tell where my foot or leg is in space. I have to watch where I put my foot and leg because I run over my foot with the walker. Going up and down stairs scares me. Luckily I had someone put in a railing. And my son lifts me up when I go up the stairs. I lead off with my left, haul myself up with the railing, dragging the right leg up. Every time I take the stairs (which I have to because the bathroom , bed, and computer are there) I&#8217;m so scared of falling down them. So far, I almost fell down once when I missed a step.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have a Life-Alert. I also have a button that rings in his room so he can come down and help me. What would be good is to have a house with no stairs! I was going to sell my house, but if I did that, I&#8217;d lose Medicaid for about three years when I spend the money I make from the house. I would flip it to a mobile home, but I can&#8217;t afford the HOA fees (the rent on the land). I could afford it at the 55+ communities, but then if something happens to me, my son would get kicked out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, yes, my house scares me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I fell four times this week. Two were out of bed, and two when I lost my balance trying to feed the cat. One I went to the hospital for and they x-rayed my entire right side. No broken or &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/?p=1094\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1094","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1094","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1094"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1094\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1097,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1094\/revisions\/1097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1094"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1094"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1094"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}