{"id":1066,"date":"2026-03-08T10:22:23","date_gmt":"2026-03-08T14:22:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/?p=1066"},"modified":"2026-03-08T10:22:23","modified_gmt":"2026-03-08T14:22:23","slug":"im-disabled-dammit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/?p=1066","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m disabled. Dammit."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I went food shopping for the first time in a year. We&#8217;d been using Instacart and DoorDash and other delivery services. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, I&#8217;m in a wheelchair now. I can no longer stand on my own. Even with a walker, I teeter back and forth. At first, I went through the store in the wheelchair without feet, but my legs were at the bottom of a cart. I felt like I was driving an 18-wheeler through narrow streets. And it was busy! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Two weeks later, my son and I went to another supermarket. Not as busy, but this time I was able to use the scooter that the store provided. It took me two accidents to finally get a hang of the thing. I realized a few things while sitting in the scooter, trying to shop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nothing is easy to get.<br>Opening doors in the frozen food aisle is impossible. Buying meat is almost as bad, especially if you want the stuff high up. Forget getting two-liter soda bottles above your head. Bring someone to help.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Eye level items when you&#8217;re sitting down is the most expensive.<br>I know that it&#8217;s a marketing scheme, as that&#8217;s kid&#8217;s eye level. I have to look way up, or way down.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Aisles are too narrow.<br>I crashed into two set-ups because the turns were not tight enough. When I go in an aisle to get one thing, my choice is to continue up the aisle instead of turning around. Which takes longer to shop.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Checking out is a nightmare.<br>Some stores can&#8217;t detach the card reader. It&#8217;s hard to negotiate the cart, the scooter, and the bags.  And packing the car&#8230;I was worthless. I just sat there while my son and my driver loaded up the car.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Throughout, I felt like I couldn&#8217;t get anything without help. How can people live this way? And now that there&#8217;s snow everywhere, I can&#8217;t use the sidewalks.  Not that I go anywhere much anymore. Though when spring comes, I hope to go outside for some sun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This week, we&#8217;re going to a sushi buffet restaurant. My son is going to have to make plates for me and I hope they have something for a handicapped woman to sit at. Yup, I&#8217;m going to rate places based on their handicapped-accessability. Something new, maybe I can monetize it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I went food shopping for the first time in a year. We&#8217;d been using Instacart and DoorDash and other delivery services. Unfortunately, I&#8217;m in a wheelchair now. I can no longer stand on my own. Even with a walker, I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/?p=1066\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1066","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1066","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1066"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1066\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1067,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1066\/revisions\/1067"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1066"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1066"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grimaulkin.com\/ljacob-today\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1066"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}